The main reason our "Guides & Angels" are within us is to influence us to make the best possible choices for our life journey.  Yet even as they often help, it takes us to accept & follow our "Vibes" before they can do any good for us.  To allow ourself to be influenced by our guides you must be willing to to flexible in mind, body and spirit. This means to get out of the self made "Rut" you have chosen to behave upon.  Change your plans, take risk once in a while.  Learn to trust the moment and be willing to go with the flow if new inspiration encourages you to do so.  Stop putting yourself in "shoulda, coulda, woulda" situations, which continue to give you lost oppotunities and intuative regrets.  If you feel a vibe have courage to act upon it.  Whether it creates change or loss.  Stop  making excuses or second guessing yourself.  Everyone has a 6th sense.  Those who choose 5 sensory seem to rigid to see and except the assistance of higher forces.  So they choose to miss their moment and live in frustration and "shoulda, coulda, woulda" situations.  Rather than being blind to situations or ignoring your guides due to fear of rejection or loss.  Start finding you by keeping an open mind.  Change your "Behavior".  Teach yourself how to not put yourself aside.  Stop resisting the Universe it strives to help you.  Accept the gifts of the Universe.  It will continue to restore "Harmony" to all concerned.  Move-on.  Have Faith.  No one is able to work against you.  Only you can work against you. Your choice and behavior shows that. Stay strong knowing you are in control of your Destiny!!! God Bless