Ree - I think that your friend in the dream may represent someone or something in real life (other than herself). Other than that, I feel that the dream is very 'real", in that it inidcates frustration with your husband over money issues, and very probably an extremely different way of looking at money and spending. Was the dream stress induced? More than likely yes. However, dreamtime allows us to handle stress in this manner. I would ask for another dream in which you consciously ask your Guides how you can best address financial issues in your life.
Blessings,
Bonnie