Yes, it makes sense to me. I'm more in tune with animals it seems, but the closer in my feelings and the more I care about them. I can see enough about their past years and have help quite a few with the troubles they had because of abuse or being invaded for. You care about this person and the healing of her . The more you see, the better the healing will be, anyway that's how it is with my animals. And I've seen many different things, it's normal. Everything is going to be fine, believe in yourself and your Mother has the right to refuse, just do what is right for you and don't talk about these things around your Mother. My husband is just now coming around and we've been together 21 years now.